The fear of being embarrassed or 'cringed' has become one of the biggest psychological challenges faced by 'Generation Z' (Gen Z) living in the current digital age. With the rapid growth of social media networks, the fear that their actions and words will be ridiculed by millions has severely limited the creativity and self-expression of the younger generation.
Anyone posting a video on social media platforms like TikTok can easily face such criticism, which also severely impacts their mental health.According to a recent Yahoo/YouGov poll, more than half of young people born between the mid-1990s and early 2010s refrain from freely expressing themselves online due to this fear of 'cringing'. Furthermore, 55% of them stated that this situation has hindered them from publicly expressing their feelings. The younger generation feels constantly judged by others due to this intense surveillance culture prevalent on social media.
Professor Roger Giner-Sorolla, a social psychologist at the University of Kent, points out that 'cringe' is a feeling of shame or discomfort felt on behalf of others, which leads to a person being heavily criticized. Biologically and culturally, humans are adapted to live in small groups, but in the current digital space, being evaluated by millions of eyes and thousands of different standards creates an unbearable amount of pressure on the human mind. According to Professor Mark Beal of Rutgers University, this situation tends to make the younger generation think of themselves as 'unpopular' or 'misfits'.
Dean Burnett, a neuroscientist in Cardiff, says that this 'cringe' nature is also evident when older generations try to use younger generations' trends or words. For example, when an older person uses youth slang words like 'rizz' or 'delulu', it becomes both humorous and awkward. Georgie Gee, a child psychotherapist in London, states that exposure to such internet influences at a very young age hinders the normal identity development process of young people.
Creators like 25-year-old Katie Whitney, who faced this situation, say that they were initially very cautious due to the harsh criticism their videos received, but later found self-identity through subcultures like 'CringeTok'. Marcelia, who has over half a million followers, says that Gen Z is very quick to find fault with others and criticize them. Furthermore, according to 24-year-old Natalie Soybotian, this cringe culture is stifling the dreams and creativity of an entire generation.
Experts suggest various practical solutions to escape this pressure. Professor Giner-Sorolla says that focusing one's attention only on a small, like-minded, friendly group is the best remedy. Furthermore, the process of completely abstaining from social media for a period like a week or a month and spending time with nature, known as 'Digital Detox', is also becoming popular among the youth community today. Experts point out that these mental barriers can be overcome by freely doing what one loves without fear of others' judgments and by re-embracing enthusiasm.