That I forced my marriage .... all bunkum

That I forced my marriage .... all bunkum

the talk that I didn't want children .... all bunkum

Nirosha Virajini avoids husband's police complaint

Popular singer Nirosha Virajini's former second husband Yasantha Nawulage has lodged a
complaint with Mirihana Police saying that a statement given to a weekend newspaper a few weeks before about her marriages going on the rocks has damaged his reputation.

What is mentioned by Yasantha, who is employed with Derana Channel about this complaint is that Nirosha has made detrimental statements regarding him to a weekend Sathhanda newspaper in a feature article saying that the ideas expressed by her were false and it has resulted in defaming his name.

The ideas expressed by Nirosha to that newspaper is as follows:

                                                                       He didn't have the ticket with him to go the place where she had wanted to go. She didn't want to go to the place to which he had the ticket either. When hopes were dashed .... the attachment also shifted.

                                                                       "I of course hoped for a person who 'came forward'. As a woman I won't expect security from a man. Because I am mentally very strong. So more than security ... what I want is strength. That means that he is there on behalf of me.

                                                                       The personality, the strength I hoped for ... I didn't get. Personality doesn't mean physical stature. What I mean is ... where his mind actually is. The main reason of separation in both instances I got married, is that. In the meantime there were other instances of incompatibility also".

                                                                       The extension of a home is a micro family. But Nirosha is different from that. Her ideas are footlose. She focuses at some other place.

                                                                       "I had a chance of getting a child in my first marriage. But unfortunately I lost it. That maybe because of some defect in my body. But in my second marriage I didn't take an interest in getting a child. Whatever it is ... a child means a happiness for the life. I love children a lot. But what I think is that I was born to this world not to bring up children, to handle children's work or to do the husband's work and then die and go away. I may have come to this world to do something different than this".

                                                                       She sometimes adjusts to the most sensitive words in the language according to the plan of nature.

                                                                       "There are certain things ... however much we want them ... nature is not ready to give them. I entered into my second marriage as if by force. It was something that happened for my own necessity. We do certain things to show the world. We think that we should have a partner ... that we should have offspring. We think that if we don't live like a family ... we'd be subjected to social accusation. Sometimes we take decisions thinking of those who are around us. But nature does not allow us to maintain that for much time. It may be that we are directed towards another direction by nature herself. The correct thing is to move towards that direction where we are directed to".

Nirosha's second husband Yasantha Nawulage has severed connections with Nirosha for about two years and by now has legally separated from her. Yasantha has indicated matters to police across the aforementioned letter by forwarding many fictitious points. Yasantha has stated that matters such as he doesn't have a personality, that he and Nirosha didn't want to bring up a child in their marriage and that their marriage was something that was carried out almost by force, were all false. Yasantha also says that it was Nirosha who mostly wanted to go into this marriage and that he didn't want to damage her reputation by presenting this decision of separating, to the media. Yasantha then goes on to say that when things were such, when he asked Nirosha as to why she provided wrong information to the press in a manner that it harmed his reputation, she had disconnected the line by saying, "Sorry if you were hurt by that".

Yasantha explains that he and Nirosha had taken so much pains to beget a child and that treatment by well-known doctors were taken for a number of months and finally they went even as far as the fertility method but that it all turned out to be futile. He says that when things were in that position, she had given false information to newspapers saying that there was no interest to bring up a child. He in the end says that he possesses medical reports as evidence to prove those.

Yasantha says that on both occasions when police notified Nirosha to enquire the complaint that he had made against her, she had avoided the enquiry. He mentions that he would be going further in legal procedures in this connection in the future.