Jackson's son's 85:15 ratio of Love

 

Jackson's son had loved other girls while loving me .....later says 85% and 15%
                    -- revelation from Amanda who separated from Akila

Various articles happened to be published in recent times about the love story between tele-actor Akila Dhanuddhara (Jackson's son) in newspapers. The couple had given certain interviews together while ideas about the future daughter-in-law also was expressed by Akila's parents. However the romance has now gone on the rocks.

Though a break up of a romance is a common phenomenon, it is something special that Nilukshi Amanda who was to  be linked to this famous family, having severed connections in this respect had given a wide coverage to the media about this incident. One such exposition she had given to Rivira Sunday newspaper is as follows:

*Amanda .... the love affair between you and Akila is 3 years. How did this story change allof a sudden?
  The connection between I and Akila will be 3 years on April 7th. But we put a stop to our association on 18th March.

*It is understood that you stopped your affair because he has another lover.
  Yes .... that girl is in Ja Ela. Akila has loved that girl from the time he was schoolgoing. They have had the relationship for 7 years. What he said was that he began to love me after that connection stopped. Whatever it is, even when he was involved with me, he had had this connection with that girl also. That girl has been told that there's no connection between I and Akila.

*How did Amanda come to know that there is an alliance between the two of them?
  March 15th was Akila's birthday. With my family members I visited Akila's home .... as a surprise for him. Except for Akila's appachchi, everyone else was there. I was told that Akila had gone to the gym. He returned home at about one.

  Whatever it is, before he came home he had gone to the home of that girl with whom he had that earlier connection and had come after cutting a cake. I came to know about it from a friend of mine. That friend is abroad. That friend called and asked whether I met Akila and that he had another affair. I didn't believe it. I told that we got together and cut the cake and that he was with me for a long time. Then that friend said that that connection is with the younger sister of my friend. The friend said that a photo of cutting the cake with that girl was shown to her. After that, that photo was sent to me. I phoned Akila and asked him. He totally denied it. It was only after seeing the photo that he accepted it. He had loved that girl simultaneously when courting me. What he did was a terrible case of cheating. Because of that I left him.At the same time he said that he loved that girl also .... but he said that he didn't think that I would come to know about it. He then cried. Akila also told me that because he wanted me, he didn't say about it.

*Have you Amanda spoken to that girl who was a third party to the love story between you and Akila?
  Yes .... that child's mother spoke to me and said that she wanted to meet me. I went to that friend's place. It was only then that the mother spoke about this connection, in tears. That girl spoke to me .... a very innocent girl. Akila had promised to marry that girl. At the same time when I was there in that home, Akila spoke to that girl. He spoke with a lot of love .... as if there was no affair with me. At the same time I also spoke. I activated the speaker on the phone. I too spoke in a loving manner. He said that he had made a big mistake .... and that he had received 85 per cent of the love he wanted from her and that he went to the other girl to get the balance 15 per cent. I then asked whether he associated her intimately. He said yes .... and to tell that it was the truth that he was saying. Akila then told that girl also that he became close to her, in order to be intimate with her.

*Has then Akila separated from you and carrying on with that other girl?
  That girl's mother said that since she had been cheated, he won't be permitted for that matter. But can't say what'll happen.

*After the romance ceased, didn't Akila speak to Amanda?
  He spoke from time to time. He said that he loved me. But then after he spoke to me I didn't respond. However, Akila's parents had known about that incident. It was when that was going on that I was to be given hand in marriage. And since I didn't speak to him, Akila sent me SMS. As I didn't reply those messages, he sent me one SMS saying that he didn't cheat me .... but that he it was who was cheated.

*As a girl .... Amanda are you sad about this what has happened?
  I became very sad .... because the way Akila treated me during our romance was not good. He didn't look after me. That's not what is called love. It was to share each other's care and to provide security in love. But never did he provide me with any security. I of course looked after him. I looked forward to someone who looked after me and who loved me. But I was patient when he did all those things. About an year before this, I wanted to separate from him when I couldn't bear it. I suffered a lot. But I try to make up my mind thinking that he cheated me. Now I have no sorrow. It is a big disappointment that I have.

*With what motive did you announce this incident across various media?
  Not to hurt him. I don't know to how many other girls he has given hopes. I thought that nobody would be cheated after coming to know these incidents. I told this so that steps would then be taken to protect girls from such fraudulent characters.

Note of discussion -- Harshani Weeraratna